Saturday, June 2, 2007

Friends and friendship

When people decide to share their life and experiences with someone else they look for friends to share the experience of friendship. True friends are there in a sharing experience. Friends are not there for Using or exploiting someone they call a "friend". Lasting friendships are usually based on trust and compatibility. Most of the time, people don't change their true inner personality so its usually best to adapt to who your friends are... instead of trying to change them. As strongly as you believe something, someone can believe the complete opposite and think you're crazy. There is a wrong and right but that's a different subject. In the mean time, people should just find friends based on compatibility, someone who shares your view points and personality traits rather then other changing things.

The Basics about friendship

True friendship is based on sharing experiences. Sharing time with someone takes friendship in to it's more comfortable state of mind. When money comes between friends... friendships start to deteriorate (fall apart).

When ever people decide to make friends into "bank clerks" problems always come up. Money is usually one the leading reasons that friendships end. Other times, friendship is corrupted by treating your friends as "toys" or objects even if you're not consciously aware of it. Sure some naive friends are a little obsessive and confused regarding what true friendship really is but by doing that they are no longer in a friendship. When someone is someone's toy they are that persons property not friend.

Tips to keep good friends

1. Don't treat friends as if they're your property.

2. Never ask for a loan you can't pay but if you do ask for it... pay high interests.

3. Show care and consideration whenever possible.

4. Treat your friends as good as you treat the person you're dating on in a relationship with.

5. Be yourself!

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